How to host a simple, lovely and stress free party!

Hello there! Trying to jump back into my extracurriculars these days (so Rosie has a sane mama!) We've had some big changes over the past few weeks - we just moved from Brooklyn to Nashville, Tennessee (I still can't believe it even as I'm typing). We'll dive into that later, but for now, lets talk baby showers! 

The month before we had Rosie, I hosted a baby shower for a dear friend in Brooklyn.  Early on I decided on an Alice in Wonderland garden party theme - I wanted the feel of the party to match my friends colorful and imaginative personality. The plan was to host the seated lunch in our Brooklyn backyard, weather permitting. 

Besides being very pregnant, Brooklyn Boy and I were flying in (I had a dr.'s note to fly!) from Nashville the night before the party. Good planning, hu? We had NO room for bad weather, flight delays or early labor. I needed to plan ahead and simplify as much as possible without comprising intentionality and quality. 

The weather and the babe in my tummy held off and we had a marvelous time. Thanks to a handful of go-to-tricks, the party was simple and stress free. Here's how we did it - 

Let a bold pattern to do the heavy lifting. With the seated lunch happening in my Brooklyn backyard,  the dining table became the main focus for all the decor. For our Alice in Wonderland Garden Party look & feel, I used 5 yards of black and white fabric from IKEA to ground our table scape. The fabric was dramatic, fun and affordable!  It also camouflaged my mismatched tables that were different widths and lengths! 

Let a bold pattern to do the heavy lifting. With the seated lunch happening in my Brooklyn backyard,  the dining table became the main focus for all the decor. For our Alice in Wonderland Garden Party look & feel, I used 5 yards of black and white fabric from IKEA to ground our table scape. The fabric was dramatic, fun and affordable!  It also camouflaged my mismatched tables that were different widths and lengths! 

Lean on talented friends!  My first priority of the shower was for my soon-to-be-mom friend to feel loved. Second priority was to lighten the load for myself and 'out source' some of the tasks. As someone who loves doing projects, I've learned there is a time to DIY and a time to hand off! I called upon fabulously talented friend, Anna Watson Carl, of the Yellow Table. She graciously took care of everything edible. She conjured up the most delicious Rhubarb Lemon Fizz cocktails & mocktails, Crostini with Fresh Ricotta and Pea-Mint Pesto, Strawberry Shortcakes (made with Orange Zest Scones) + Fresh Whipped Cream and Arugula Salad with Shaved Fennel, Watermelon Radish, and Green Apple. Not only was the food outstanding, but it took so much pressure of me! Win Win! 

Lean on talented friends!  My first priority of the shower was for my soon-to-be-mom friend to feel loved. Second priority was to lighten the load for myself and 'out source' some of the tasks. As someone who loves doing projects, I've learned there is a time to DIY and a time to hand off! I called upon fabulously talented friend, Anna Watson Carl, of the Yellow Table. She graciously took care of everything edible. She conjured up the most delicious Rhubarb Lemon Fizz cocktails & mocktails, Crostini with Fresh Ricotta and Pea-Mint Pesto, Strawberry Shortcakes (made with Orange Zest Scones) + Fresh Whipped Cream and Arugula Salad with Shaved Fennel, Watermelon Radish, and Green Apple. Not only was the food outstanding, but it took so much pressure of me! Win Win! 

Know what you're good at. And what you aren't! Printed pieces are not my gifting! I reached out to two dear friends to help with printed details for the shower.  My go to designer for, well . . . almost everything, is LeighAnn, who I've mentioned lots before. LeighAnn took on the printed pieces for the party. We asked both soon-to-be-grandmothers questions about what their kids were like as babies - weight, length, first words, funny stories. LeighAnn took their answers and designed centerpieces around them. She also made name cards and "Jack's Stat's" notecards for each place setting. At the end of the shower, we collected all the stats and put them into a keepsake book for mom & dad. 

Know what you're good at. And what you aren't! Printed pieces are not my gifting! I reached out to two dear friends to help with printed details for the shower.  My go to designer for, well . . . almost everything, is LeighAnn, who I've mentioned lots before. LeighAnn took on the printed pieces for the party. We asked both soon-to-be-grandmothers questions about what their kids were like as babies - weight, length, first words, funny stories. LeighAnn took their answers and designed centerpieces around them. She also made name cards and "Jack's Stat's" notecards for each place setting. At the end of the shower, we collected all the stats and put them into a keepsake book for mom & dad. 

Another darling friend, Jessi Evans of Orchard Made, created watercolor + calligraphy invitations for the shower. This was our jumping off point for the shower as far as look and feel went. I just loved these hand made invites, they perfectly captured the mom-to-be and the vibe of the shower!

Another darling friend, Jessi Evans of Orchard Made, created watercolor + calligraphy invitations for the shower. This was our jumping off point for the shower as far as look and feel went. I just loved these hand made invites, they perfectly captured the mom-to-be and the vibe of the shower!

Use what you have! Rather then placing all of the shower gifts on the ground, or buying a table for them to sit on, I rolled the bakers rack from our kitchen (the piece that normally held some of our dishes) outside and arranged the gifts. This made for a festive gift display that added to the outdoor party vibe. 

Use what you have! Rather then placing all of the shower gifts on the ground, or buying a table for them to sit on, I rolled the bakers rack from our kitchen (the piece that normally held some of our dishes) outside and arranged the gifts. This made for a festive gift display that added to the outdoor party vibe. 

Choose when to invest. I love hosting parties and showers. Years ago, I splurged (yea right, we're talking $20 or so) on two dozen IKEA glass tumblers, like these. For me, the splurge wasn't money related, it was SPACE related. Could I fit them in my petite kitchen? I figured, at such a great price and guaranteed use over time, I'd make them fit! The glass tumblers (rather then paper or plastic party cups) made the event feel a little more sparkly. 

Choose when to investI love hosting parties and showers. Years ago, I splurged (yea right, we're talking $20 or so) on two dozen IKEA glass tumblers, like these. For me, the splurge wasn't money related, it was SPACE related. Could I fit them in my petite kitchen? I figured, at such a great price and guaranteed use over time, I'd make them fit! The glass tumblers (rather then paper or plastic party cups) made the event feel a little more sparkly. 

DIY Potted Herbs = Centerpieces & Party Favors I took my centerpiece cue's from the backyard and decided to use herbs as table decor. We picked up a variety of herbs from the hardware store down the street, quickly potted them in colorful containers (minutes before the guests arrived) and placed them in front of each table setting. Then we used skewers and some of the baby Q & A's LeighAnn designed and printed and stuck them in each pot. Once the party was over, we encouraged each party goer to take one as a party favor. Viola, dual purposed table decor! 

DIY Potted Herbs = Centerpieces & Party Favors I took my centerpiece cue's from the backyard and decided to use herbs as table decor. We picked up a variety of herbs from the hardware store down the street, quickly potted them in colorful containers (minutes before the guests arrived) and placed them in front of each table setting. Then we used skewers and some of the baby Q & A's LeighAnn designed and printed and stuck them in each pot. Once the party was over, we encouraged each party goer to take one as a party favor. Viola, dual purposed table decor! 

Moral of the story - you can throw a party that's beautiful AND stress free. Hope these tips help you plan your next soiree! 

PS - If you're looking for a great gift for yourself or a friend, pick up a copy of Anna Watson Carl's The Yellow Table Cookbook! You'll thank me later :)

things people say when you're pregnant

I haven't written much about being pregnant. Probably because it's been fairly (thankfully) uneventful. If you discount the ankle breaking taxi accident when I was 5 weeks pregnant, it's really been just plain boring! Which I will gladly take! Here's how things are looking at the moment - 

A few baby bump progress pictures . . . 

A few baby bump progress pictures . . . 

One of my biggest observations through the whole experience is how much of a conversation starter being pregnant is. Who knew! I'm constantly approached by pedestrians, flight attendants, colleagues, and just plain random people. I haven't been approached with too much inappropriate tummy rubbing, but rather, hilarious comments from just about everyone.  In general, people are kind and well intended, but when you take their comments out of context, they can sound a little 'bless their heart' ridiculous. Here are a few of the most interesting things I've heard since being pregnant and some simple rewording that would make the comments way less weird - 

Actual Question Asked: Have you started gaining weight yet? 

Let's try that again: You look great! Have noticed anything different yet?

 

Actual Question Asked: Do you have stretch marks? 

Let's try that again: You look great! I'll have to get you the lotion I loved when I was pregnant. 

 

Actual Comment Made: Wow you're really gaining a lot of weight in that one area! (Attempted pregnancy joke. Always a fail)

Let's try that again: You look great! 

 

Actual Conversation that happened today:

Lady in bathroom: How far along are you?

Me: 35 Weeks

Lady in bathroom: Wow (looking at my stomach). You're really small. (Not talking about my whole figure. Just my tummy.)

Me: Thanks! Everyone wears it differently.

Lady in bathroom: I guess so!

Let's try that again: 35 weeks? You look great!  THE END.

 

Basically, the rule of thumb is to always compliment a pregnant person - even if it's not that accurate. I promise the pregnant person doesn't really care. As wonderful and magical as being pregnant is, having a little person growing inside your tummy is also really weird! We just want to feel normal and like ourselves. Compliments help :)

once upon a time, i took a diy hiatus

It feels a little funny to be blogging and with a diy post of all things! I've certainly taken a little break from the blog over the past few weeks, or is it months? We've been in full baby prep plus work has been nutso for both me and Brooklyn Boy. So you know, the blog gets a little quiet :)

The diy bug finally hit me last weekend, though! My thrifty and crafty mother-in-law sent me some cute upholstery fringe from Joann's a while back. She sent a nice little variety of pinks, which I thought could work for baby girls room.  Plus, I had a left over barrel lamp shade from Target that made for a great blank canvas. 

Here's what you need. A few yards of upholstery trim / fringe. 

Here's what you need. A few yards of upholstery trim / fringe. 

My inexpensive left over Target barrel lamp shade

My inexpensive left over Target barrel lamp shade

Legitimately, the only other supplies you need: scissors + a hot glue gun.

Legitimately, the only other supplies you need: scissors + a hot glue gun.

First step - pull the thin piece of thread holding the bottom of the trim together. It should pull away easily.

First step - pull the thin piece of thread holding the bottom of the trim together. It should pull away easily.

Then fray up the ends a little bit to relax them.

Then fray up the ends a little bit to relax them.

Next, lay the fringe out and decide on the color order. I'm was feeling a variation of ombre!

Next, lay the fringe out and decide on the color order. I'm was feeling a variation of ombre!

Using your hot glue gun, pick your starting point (I usually go for a seam) and slowly apply the hot glue to the top of the trim and press into place. Continue around circumference of shade. Repeat with each color.

Using your hot glue gun, pick your starting point (I usually go for a seam) and slowly apply the hot glue to the top of the trim and press into place. Continue around circumference of shade. Repeat with each color.

Voila! SO simple. The project from start to finish took about 15 minutes. My kind of diy. 

Voila! SO simple. The project from start to finish took about 15 minutes. My kind of diy. 

I'm trying the shade in a few different places at the moment. I think I'm going to pick up a smaller shade and make something for baby girl's room. Speaking of which - is almost DONE! We've got moms and sisters coming in town this weekend and I plan on fully utilizing their skills to get everything completed and ready to go for baby girl! 

HGTV Celebrity Holiday Home Recap

Disclaimer: My pictures of the space are somewhat average and not retouched. But they do give you a better idea of the space! Here's to real life! 

This post is soooo overdue. We produced the project in September and it aired on HGTV in December and it's . . . . March 6th. Whoops! Anyways, a long long time ago, I was chosen to be a designer on HGTV's Celebrity Holiday Home show. DREAM JOB. I love working with HGTV, they know production and the project was taking place in New York. Magic! I was paired with Celebrity Kathy Najimy, from Sister Act & Hocus Pocus (my two favorites!) among many others

 The assignment was to refresh Kathy's living room, dining room and terrace for the holidays! It's a pretty funny commission in the middle of September when it's 75 degrees out, but hey, you make it work :) For the installation of the space, I brought in my mom, Brooklyn Boy and good friend Billy to help as my team. I could NOT have done the project without them. Having the right team is so crucial - my team spoke my language and knew when to take initiative and when to involve me.  Really, could not have done it without them.

As I'm typing this out, I'm trying to think of the interesting details to share - the fly on the wall details. How about bullet points for this -

  • I had a $3,000 budget to cover ALL decor
  • We filmed 2 days total, from 9 -5 both days.
  • Day 1 was spent: Lugging all of our Holiday goodness into Kathy's apartment. Organizing it. Filming some of the interview segments. Changing back and forth between my 'work' outfit and my 'interview' outfit about a gazillion times. Getting into a grove. Working on the Room.
  • Day 1 evening was spent: Leaving my BAG of wardrobe (most of it borrowed) in the back of a cab. I didn't realize this until we were safely inside my apartment. Which is really the perfect time to realize such a thing. Panic ensued for about an hour because it's stinkin' hard to track down a taxi driver! Thank GOODNESS for moms and Brooklyn Boys. They tracked it down first thing the next morning and everything was fine. 
  • Day 2 was spent: Finishing styling of room. Doing crafts with Kathy (which really should be it's own show). The REVEAL. Watching Kathy have a holiday party in September with her awesome friends. Sitting for the first time in 2 days. Wrap! 
  • TMI Fun Fact: I was 5 weeks pregnant during this production. 
  • The mantle I brought in from Olde Good Things, the Christmas Trees + Wreaths and BOWS were all trade-in's (free use in exchange for a mention on the show) and didn't come out of my budget
  • Kathy Najimy is a show stealer. She is so warm and hospitable and HILARIOUS. She loves her family fiercely and was such a joy to be around.
  • I had countless meetings with the executive production team for the show to discuss my vision for the space, what I was buying, logistics for delivery, etc. We had to manage all sorts of tv production do's and don'ts like NO solid white (washes out on camera), NO small stripes (moire), and MORE shimmer MORE glam!! Very intense stuff, you know :)
  • This project required a lot of schlepping: I did a ton of online shopping, but also went to every HomeGoods and Target within 3 hours of the city. Every winter wonderland element I purchased for the space lived in by basement until the taping. JUST THIS WEEKEND, I got rid of the extra bows I had left over from the show. 

Those are the main details worth sharing, let me know if you have questions on anything! And can I just say thanks to Squarespace for awesome gallery image features so I can post all my pictures in one drop rather then individually? Love that.  I will post the episode on here soon!  Hope you liked the recap!